• My top 3 things abled-bodied people should know

    As a stroke survivor, there are a few things I wish non-disabled people knew. A stroke can happen to anyone, at any age, and it can change your life in an instant. Here are the top three things I want non-disabled people to know about stroke: In conclusion, stroke can happen to anyone, and it’s…

  • A bad Week!

    So today I’m going to talk about an event that happened to me last year, and how I managed to deal with a big issue in terms of my recovery from stroke. In May, I received a phone call from a physiotherapist, specifically the physiotherapist, who took me on for recovery after my stroke. She…

  • Strokes and Stereotyping

    Being a stroke survivor at a young age is not an easy experience. When people hear that you have had a stroke, they often assume that you are weak, fragile, and unable to live a normal life. This stereotype can be frustrating and demoralizing, especially when you are trying to move forward and rebuild your…

  • (5) things I’ve learned living with a stroke

    That you can’t do everything yourself I was always fiercely independent before my stroke, and I wanted to be that way after, but unfortunately it was not meant to be. My life has made me rely on others, and for the most part I have. It’s made me see that sometimes it’s okay to ask…

  • Stroke: My experience of early recovery

    So I’m only getting round to this now, after a month of ups & downs for me in terms of my stroke and recovery from it, but it has given me time to think about things I haven’t shared with you before, so I figure now is the best time. It couldn’t get much lower:…

  • The best compliment i received

    What was the best compliment you’ve received? That I’m remarkably happy, given the rollercoaster of a life I’ve been through. It’s strange when i think about it. After all, my mother left when I was 11. I went to the worst period of my life in the years, after still being very hurt and trying…

  • Masculinity and Stroke

    Rule 1: Be strong. Rule 2: Fix things. Rule 3: If you are hurt, rub some dirt on it and walk it off. Rule 4: Under no circumstances should you ever, ever admit that you are scared. For twenty-two years, I followed this script. I was the protagonist of my own little movie—maybe not an…

  • 7 things having a stroke has taught me

    As a stroke survivor, I have learned a lot about myself and life in general. The experience has taught me so many valuable lessons that have helped me appreciate life more and live it to the fullest. Here are the top 7 things that having a stroke has taught me: In conclusion, having a stroke…

  • 5 tips for inspiration when recovering from a stroke.

    As a stroke survivor, I know firsthand how life can change in an instant. At the age of 21, I suffered a stroke that left me paralysed on one side of my body and unable to speak. It was a devastating blow, and for a long time, I struggled to find hope and purpose in…